As far as relationships go, we’re going to start simply... I’m asking these questions:
and
-”What kind of relationships do you wish you had that you don’t have currently”
What I mean is not related to the quality (ie. good or bad) but rather the type (Friends, close friends, Family, romantic, Siblings... etc.).
How you group your interpersonal relationships in your mind is unique to you and says a lot about how you sort people.
We may have rules for one group (ie. family or friends) that we don’t have for another (ie. local shopkeeper or a co-worker on another floor) and there are some groups we may be avoiding.
Do you have lots of acquaintances but no close friends? Do you avoid intimacy? Do you avoid any interactions that aren’t intimate?
Do you only spend time with people who are better than you at the things you want to do? Do you avoid those people?
Do you avoid all people?
Do you have a mastermind group?
Do you have a team?
Who are you as a social being?
Marking down the groups that exist as you see them allows you to get a glimpse into how you manage yourself socially. Again, we’ll be looking at which are working and which aren’t later.
For now look at what exists and what doesn’t relationship wise for you. Where are you now?
Challenge:
Answer these questions:
-“What kind of relationships do you have now?”
and
-”What kind of relationships do you wish you had that you don’t have currently”